How to prepare for mediation

Mediation requires compromise. Compromise means that you get some of the things you want, but not all of the things you want. The outcome isn't perfect but it's good enough.

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Think beforehand about how you can be flexible. It's also helpful to know what you will not compromise on.

To get ready for mediation, you should:

• Read all the emails or other documents you've been sent.
• Find a support person if you need one, like a family member, carer or support worker.
• Spend time deciding what you need and want. You should write or record your thoughts.
• Summarise your ideas to share. You could write a list, like this one.
• Think about what you need to make mediation work, like any assistive devices or a private room.
• Find agreements you've made with the other person in the past.
• Write a list of things that you disagree about.
• Identify what you need, what you want, and what you can compromise on.
• Talk to a lawyer if that would be helpful.
• Understand the benefits of a successful mediation. For example, going to court costs money and is stressful. If mediation works, you won't have to go to court.
• Understand the costs and risks of not reaching an agreement. For example, you will have to keep talking about the disagreement until you find a solution.

You can read more about how to prepare for mediation and what to expect via Mediations Australia here (external link).